Sportsheets Em Ex Contour Harness Extra Large XL from Sportsheets Red Do not call It a Strap On. An active lifestyle demands a comfortable, all day, all night harness. Em Ex was designed for durability, comfort, and fit. The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping accessories firmly secure. With its durable elastic waistband and nitrile rubber O-ring, you can fly the friendly skies as TSA will never know you are wearing it. Jock style. Interior fabric panels secure toys and provide support. Built in nitrile o-ring 1.5 inches. Designed with 2 bullet pockets to provide extra stimulation. Wicking material keeps moisture under control. Includes a travel pouch to carry your harness anywhere with ease. Note no digital retouching was done to the women modeling Em Ex Ladies size extra large, XL. Waist 31 inches to 34 inches, Hips 42 inches to 44 inches. Size 18 and 20.